Monday, November 29, 2010

Robyn - We Love You!

Robyn Roncelli:
11/20/1955 - 11/20/2010

To be honest, when Robyn first entered my life nine years ago I was crushed. This stranger did not belong. But the pain I felt then, compares little to the devastation felt now as she leaves. Yes, in nine short years Robyn went from someone with whom I was uncomfortable being in the same room – to the only person I was comfortable having in the room when Dominic was born. Robyn’s spunky attitude, pure joy in life, and giving ways were impossible to resist. Whether it was singing and dancing to “It’s Raining Men,” cheering on the Spartans and Tigers, or playing golf – Robyn always had a blast.

Robyn gave love freely and without hesitation. She loved to nurture and care for others. She mothered me while respecting the fact that she could not replace my mother. Robyn indulged my obsessive-ness over bridal gown shopping, house hunting, furniture buying, and nursery decorating. She delighted in all of these things right along with me - which made everything all the more fun. Robyn loved to shop. I don’t think there was ever more than a few days between calls from Kohl’s or COSTCO asking if I needed one thing or another. She became the top fan and super scorekeeper at my softball games. She embraced all of my friends and absolutely loved hearing about what was going on in their lives. Above all, she adored being a grandma.

Robyn faced her impossible stage IV cancer diagnosis 5.5 years ago with strength and determination. She spent much of the last five years comforting those around her, not wanting to be the cause of any pain for those she held dear. I often had friends ask how Robyn was doing… was her cancer in “remission.” No, I would have to remind them, she will not be going into remission, her disease is too advanced, incurable. I don’t believe they forgot this because they were absentminded or uncaring, but rather because Robyn made it so easy to forget. She forged ahead enjoying every day with lots of smiles and laughs.

In nine short years Robyn went from stranger to beloved friend. She taught me that letting new people into your life is not a threat any others. There is no limit on the amount of love you can feel in your heart... Robyn’s heart certainly had no limits.

Memories: http://picasaweb.google.com/kitandkristifamily/RobynWeLoveYou#